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Life is A Song, Love Is the Music
Our need for love and safety informs our coping strategies from early life. Are these strategies still serving you? How are they limiting...

Selana Kong
Jun 20, 20222 min read


What It Takes a Father To Raise A Son
Laughters and tears Sweat and fun Running around endlessly seems only yesterday Today , tomorrow, whenever it will be You fill his cup...

Selana Kong
Jun 19, 20221 min read


Love languages are the ways in which people best feel loved.
Learning about love languages is important because it allows you to understand how someone you love might need to receive communications...

Selana Kong
Jun 16, 20223 min read


A Lesson from a Small Country
"What Wales is doing today, the world will do tomorrow." - Nikhil Seth, UN Assistant Secretary General The Hong Kong Welsh Males Voice...

Selana Kong
Jun 15, 20222 min read


How to Change a Toxic Culture From the Front?
"Lead by actions; earn and build trust; genuinly care and exhibite integrity; getting things done by working hard and smart and show...

Selana Kong
Jun 11, 20222 min read


Harness your energy and channel it from your core
Do you feel being pulled in many directions by your many interests, strengths and areas of expertise? There is a way to focus your...

Selana Kong
Jun 10, 20222 min read


Who Claims Me As an Ally?
I am calling anyone who has an interest to support HongKongers in the UK to reach out to me. Read on. "As a Chinese middle aged women who...

Selana Kong
Jun 9, 20224 min read


Activate a belief system so I can manage change.
Transform life and business in 3 simple steps: Unfeeze, Change, Refreeze. Change management is the heart of the transformed agile...

Selana Kong
Jun 8, 20222 min read


Slow down and improve my vision
Pause, Freeze and Frame Time. Selana played gamelan with the More Music Ensemble in the Lancaster Festival of Lights in 2016. Gamelan is...

Selana Kong
Jun 7, 20222 min read


Fix the RIGHT things and solve the REAL problems
"Fixing the Right Things We’ll be working with you on finding what the REAL problems are in your business, so that you can set about...

Selana Kong
Jun 6, 20222 min read


How to say no without getting into a fight ?
The art of "saying no" with a "Yes-No-Yes" sentence. My husband and I met when I was 24 and he was 39. There is a tendency for me to play...

Selana Kong
Jun 5, 20222 min read


Do you give yourself a lot of pressure? When did that pressure start?
This article is about the way I was transformed from my past self to my true self. I lived in chronic workaholism and over-achievement up...

Selana Kong
Jun 3, 20222 min read


Are you feeling too responsible?
Stop rescueing or you will have to rescue them again! When was the last time you rescued somebody from a tricky situation? Did you have...

Selana Kong
Jun 2, 20222 min read


How to negotiate in a low trust relationship?
Trust is the foundation for collaboration and collaboration is the foundation for mutual gains. When trust is low, communication can...

Selana Kong
Jun 1, 20222 min read


On Self Care
This is a blog series that I will continue to expand on the importance of self-care : When was the last time you take a walk aimlessly?...

Selana Kong
May 26, 20222 min read


Why Negotiation is a science and an art?
Arts comes from the heart, Science comes from the head. When the heart and the head crosses over, that's the sweet spot. The Llangollen...

Selana Kong
May 26, 20222 min read


Health is King
Health - what is your body telling you? How intelligent is our body?How is it connected with the mind. What are some of the good habbits...

Selana Kong
May 24, 20222 min read


ROAR: Moving Forward with Your Community During Transitions
This presentation was shared in the Asia Pacific Community Music Online Conference in 2020. During the COVID 19 pandemic, many people's...

Selana Kong
Nov 27, 20213 min read


Where Is Your Community?
I visited the Netherlands during the Early Childhood Music Education Conference in 2018. Creative Journey At Risk? Creative professionals...

Selana Kong
Nov 21, 20211 min read


How Versatile Are You?
Do you want to diversity your career options and reduce financial risks ? What if there are parallel career options you are not aware of...

Selana Kong
Nov 21, 20211 min read
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